(08/08/2010 07:04 PM)DataKRASH Wrote:  Well, only you can make the decision of whether or not you should be with her or not, but usually when you're in a relationship and someone says that they love you, that means they accept you for you, not for who they want you to be.  So if she wants to change you, then the person she wants you to be is not really you.  Unless... you want to change for her, and you love her that much.

Well the first year wee were together it was really good, but then from then it went downhill. I think it happened when wee both kinda realized the bigger aspects of life. However she has always been so gungho about what to do but I was not.

(08/08/2010 07:54 PM)boogschd Wrote:  

(08/08/2010 07:52 PM)LumpiaWarrior Wrote:  but dating someone to date someone, doesn't that lead to relationships?

it may lead to that.. it may not...

depends really on what your intentions are :D

well im not the type of person to just have a good fudge and run away im not that type of person. I believe there should be conversation.