i found a very easy solution that just took a little bit of thought...  ive been renaming vob files to mpg and playing them since forever.. so i decided to make the file i wanted encoded as an mp4 with xvid4psp... then i just renamed to avi and it works no problems.. seeing as file extention with video doesn't mean that much i should have known... what matters more it the container for the muxed audio and video and the codec used to encoded them with..  anyways thanks for trying to help me guys