(28/11/2011 01:51 PM)Tetris999 Wrote:  

(28/11/2011 11:03 AM)Joom Wrote:  Yeah. I didn't choose to be gay, consciously or subconsciously. I tried liking girls and I've dated a lot but they'd always leave me because I find them icky. :P I've always liked guys to a degree. I won't have sex with them because I just find sex in general gross.

So are you implying that you were born gay? Or it was something that you just took on as your life progressed?

After reading the thread, I don't know where wee agree on where the whole gay thing comes from: birth, choice, or life inflicted.

I'm still with people being born gay, there's no such thing as a 100% model human. (wee're never perfect ;_;)

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Also, an interesting thing to note is that one of the models of being gay is that you're attracted to what women are attracted to, that is manly traits such as: beards, muscles, etc. (I have no clue what women are attracted to to be honest) this is also vice versa!

Hell, I'd probably be fooled into having sex with a man if he was totally able to mimic the female form (voice and all). I'm still straight though as I am attracted to female traits, it's what our minds and bodies do to discern which creature to mate with, I think all animals to that at a primitive level, which is probably the reason why wee're all not bisexual.

I don't think that's fundamentally true. There are plenty of people who themselves are rather fem personas, who are themselves gay and in a relationship which a butch person

Although your logic holds true for them, their partner was clearly not attracted to masculine traits in these people, and yet is still happy in a healthy relationship