(27/11/2011 10:46 PM)games like a grrl Wrote:  

(27/11/2011 07:07 PM)bsanehi Wrote:  You know what I hate is when people say that you are born gay.... Nobody is born gay or straight..... you choose your sexual orientation subconsciously without even knowing... It also depends on how you were brought up and if you have had any extreme experiences. (Example: being molested)

There is alot of people that have successfully changed their sexual orientation but it takes alot of time and effort.

This is quite possibly the dumbest thing I've seen around here.  And god knows there's been some dumb spoon.
I know a few gay people.  I know the spoon they deal with in their lives just being who they are.  If it was a choice, why would anyone choose to put themselves through it.  I don't remember ever making a conscious decision to be straight.  I just remember going to school one day, seeing someone not my gender and thinking "Yummy".

I never said it was a conscious decision.

Well to be honest for me it was a conscious decision I picked to be straight because that's what seemed right. I didn't even know what was being "gay" I knew daddy + mommy = right. It was when I hit puberty that I made the decision to be straight.