(27/11/2011 10:46 PM)games like a grrl Wrote:  

(27/11/2011 07:07 PM)bsanehi Wrote:  You know what I hate is when people say that you are born gay.... Nobody is born gay or straight..... you choose your sexual orientation subconsciously without even knowing... It also depends on how you were brought up and if you have had any extreme experiences. (Example: being molested)

There is alot of people that have successfully changed their sexual orientation but it takes alot of time and effort.

This is quite possibly the dumbest thing I've seen around here.  And god knows there's been some dumb spoon.
I know a few gay people.  I know the spoon they deal with in their lives just being who they are.  If it was a choice, why would anyone choose to put themselves through it.  I don't remember ever making a conscious decision to be straight.  I just remember going to school one day, seeing someone not my gender and thinking "Yummy".

I dunno I think people have a choice in what they want. One time I saw a girl go lesbianz because her man always abused her and her child. she found comfort and love in the gentle kindness in girlz