(03/11/2011 07:07 PM)Tetris999 Wrote:  Well that's kind of discriminatory don't you think? I've seen guys that are the most gentle people in the world and I've seen females so obnoxious I wanted to punch them in the face. Hell, men can have body types that can parallel that of women (take a look at aspheric, dat Halloween outfit was hawt).

Then again, I may just be misunderstanding this, and the statement "I don't see what other women see in men" and the fact that you are commenting on the fact of "socially acceptable men" which translates to big hairy brutes, which I'd argue isn't true. I mean, if I dressed up as a female and softened my voice and the like, wouldn't you accept me then? Because it seems that you're basing your sexuality on social qualities/appearance rather than the whole male/female discrimination. So point being, would you fall for a man impersonating a woman, therefore the whole man/female thing doesn't apply correct? Just the presentation.

I'm sorry if I come off offensive anywhere, this is usually a touchy topic :/

It's not offensive at all, and you're wrong.  When I say I prefer the "gentleness of a woman" I'm talking about touch and how they feel.  Women's skin and lips are softer than a man.  I also don't want a penis inside of me.  I don't care how good it might feel, I just don't want it near me.  I won't let a girl fuck me with a strap-on either :/  I'd prefer oral...  Also, a man can be as feminine as he wants to be, doesn't mean that I will fall in love with him.  I talk to Aspheric almost everyday, and I'm still not in love with him.  Yeah, he looked hot as a girl, but as long as he has a penis, I don't want him.  He's a nice guy, but I still don't like him like that.

It's hard to explain my sexuality.  I'm not expecting you to understand, because you don't believe I was born this way, but it's all I've ever known really.  It's not like I grew up with gay people around me, or seen it on TV when I was young.  The first time I saw two girls kiss was when I was 11, and that was Buffy the Vampire Slayer, when Willow was making out with her new girlfriend Kennedy.  Seeing a man and a woman make-out, makes me want to hurl.  I don't want to see to straight people go at it, as much as a heterosexual doesn't want to see two gay people going at it.

As for what's "socially acceptable" I could care less what society thinks of me.  I can't change who I am, despite what others may believe.  Even if I could, I wouldn't.  I'd rather die.  I am not going to pretend to be something I'm not to make others happy or more comfortable around me.  I've done that all through high school, and it only made me depressed and suicidal.  I can't see myself happy with a man.  I don't want a man; I want a woman.