sorry i didnt read any replys to this
much to long at the moment since i already took my pain meds

just from reading this you deserve better

take your gifts back if she wants to give them up
as for he saying shed send her brothers to kick your donkey really shows her maturity level, zero.

basically fudge her, and find someone better.
but really you should put your own mental health before anything if you really think its a problem

or do like i do and say "fudge the world!"
and give a spoon less what others think