Hmm, I know what you are talking about regarding the so-called friends. I to this day have only 1 friend who I can trust, my first and only friend since I came here to US back when I was wee lil kid. But other people I get along with and am friendly  to on occasions, but only to that extend, because truth is in the end, most people only care about themselves and what will benefit themselves(not to sound negative but my personal experiences). But I don't cut off contact with them either. and that's my opinion of the day