beaner2k6 Wrote:you're freaking out way too much, trust me I've lived on much less with worser circumstances, and drama is everywhere, its a part of human life, and if you can't fix something don't complain or go out of your way to try to do so, things will work themselves out, there's always a way to manage yourself and your situations and resolve problems, and i don't see anything wrong with a friend leaving the state, its not like you can't keep in touch, and even if you don't loss is a big part of human life, you loose all sorts of spoon from when you're life, and there's no point in crying about it,if you can' change it you just can't and that's that

Yeah, I get what you're saying. I was freaking out that day, but I'm not now. I'm just a bit stressed is all.

And it's not the fact that she's leaving the state that made it worse, it's WHY she's leaving. I can't say why, for her sake, but it was just really shocking.

And I'm not crying about it. Never was.