Well I have 1 year of school to go and I don't know what I will do after that so moving out still has to wait quite a while...
About her coming to me... well I offered her that once but... well she was a bit upset because she invited me quite a few times to her place and as I said I couldn't make it everytime and well so she didn't really wanted to come... I guess wee all know how girls can be sometimes....  

I still have three and a half hour until I have to make the final decision.....

personal transport for the win!



P.S.: Not meaning to sound rude or anything, but if you so want a gf, but can't think of ways to go and meet her, find one whom you can meet!

Thanks for the support guys.... personal transport would probably be even more expensive..... I can't make it either way... I ran to every aunt etc. I have.. I managed to get 56€ out of the 90€ I need so I'm out anyway....

Damn sh*t... now she said she would lend me the money.... f*** isn't there a way out of all this without hurting her.....

SkyDX Wrote:Damn sh*t... now she said she would lend me the money.... f*** isn't there a way out of all this without hurting her.....

Women are always gonna get hurt in situations like this, all u got to do is let her know its not gonna work out and why its not gonna work. Basically tell her some of the stuff u've been telling us. Also don't completely ignore her afterwards or it'll just make things alot worse. After you tell her slowly start to seperate urself from her, and eventually all this will go away. Unless shes really hot, then get on that lol

edit: i just realized im a day late on this advice =\

If she really likes you that much I would just go.

This could be a once in a life time opportunity to meat the girl of your dreams.


if you still don't want to, just say you don't feel comfortable with her paying

The 90€ was a mix of entry and transport fee... okay gas prices are REALLY expensive.... but well I'm here and as you can think that means I did not go.. but it all worked out positive^^

Yesterday I told her honestly about my worries and that I don't really want to go to the convention.. I also said that I would just go for hers sake... well the said it's my decision and she wouldn't be mad at me if I don't go. She said the would just drop by and I can tell her then if I want to go or not... well after a lot of thinking I decided not to go... I never had good physical condition and I dunno if I could have made it 2 days on a gigantic convention....

I also found out that a new train line has been established, it would now just take me 2 hours to get to her! :D
And after I now met her in person, even if it was only for a few minutes I totally want to visit her (5cm per Second did it part for that...), she has a somewhat cute attitude to her^^

Well I hope it will work out with the visit, thanks again for support on that matter everyone

by the way. if I would  be on that trip... my mother would have killed me.. my Alibi had an unexpected fatal error......

Lucky bastard...

^Well I'm sure you also have luck sometimes Slush :P