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S7* · 23/04/2008 12:49 AM

There's a strange vibe going through this thread 9610...

Sorry to hear about that, Shady..

* S7* leaves thread

feinicks · 23/04/2008 12:52 AM

OMFG's rotten spoon... freaky fudge!! I should have stayed away from this Cursed thread... Sigh

ZiNgA BuRgA · 23/04/2008 02:54 AM

trademark91 Wrote:yah her friends like me... and wee kinda broke up at the same time... wee said wed be friends but now shes ignoring me.

Why'd you break up?  Not enough interaction?  Arguments?

Do you know why she's ignoring you?  For example, it may be because she knows she doesn't want to go down the same path.  If it's something like that, try taking an alternative path.
From what I can tell, it sounds like she doesn't hate you (otherwise you wouldn't have made the "just be friends" proposal).  Try not to advance on her - she's obviously being careful about that.  Just accept the "friends" proposal for now, and don't treat her too special.  See how things work out.  After time passes, these things start to get forgotten, and if she doesn't feel like you're trying to start things again, she'll drop her guard.

But of course, you really do have to evaluate these things yourself.

trademark91 · 23/04/2008 09:31 AM

yeah. im kinda pissed off at her now anyways...

The whole story, as I managed to piece together without talking to her personally is:

Wee were going out for a while, and wee started getting into fights like all the time. I got sick of it, so I went and talked to her about it. She got really sad, and apologized for being an donkey to me, and said that she really cared about me. So wee talked for like 2 hours and worked everything out. then the next day, everything went perfectly. It was like when wee first started dating. Then that night, she went to a n MCR concert. The next day she texts me (doesn't give me the courtesy of a phone call) she doesn't know if our relationship was gonna work out (thinks of me as just a friend blah, blah blah). So I get mad and say fine, if that's how you feel, then wee should break up.
Then, shes sick on monday, doesn't go to school. Her old boyfriend tells me that what really happened was that she cheated on me at the concert with a 19-year old guy. (keep in mind that shes only 14 and I thought that I was old for her (im 16)) Now, when I try to talk to her, she keeps ignoring me, and when she sees my friends, (who she was friends with as well) she keeps giving them like a creepy death stare.
I still care about her, and if she would just talk to me, Id probably forgive her and even try to go out with her again... but This whole situation is just rediculous.

If anyone wants to comment, even just to say that shes an asshole, please feel free...

by the way sorry about your girl shady.

S7* · 23/04/2008 09:36 AM

seems like a trappy situation.

I think only time will tell how things work out now, trademark.

She's the one whos at fault here, obviously.. but like I said, time will tell.

Don't get too down about it, trademark.

trademark91 · 23/04/2008 09:39 AM

thanks at least without her i have more time to make XMBs w00t

S7* · 23/04/2008 09:40 AM

hoorah! the bright side! ^_^

hecaitomix · 23/04/2008 09:46 AM

girls... troublesome.

bachelor for life!

u_c_taker · 23/04/2008 10:22 AM

females are too hard to understand

feinicks · 23/04/2008 10:25 AM

hecaitomix Wrote:girls... troublesome.

bachelor for life!

w00t!

u_c_taker Wrote:females are too hard to understand

+1000000000000000000

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