well c# is a microsoft managed library. It's really easy to use and sort of like easy mode programming Oo
I think the best place to start (object oriented programming anyway) is probably with visual basic because it's really simple. then you could move to C# and then c++. But microsoft managed languages are almost completely different from unmanaged. Now unmanaged C and C++ are the languages you use to write psp programs and such. The only problem is the api's can be hard to understand and program with. at least for me...  I don't understand them :/
I hate keeping track of headers n such too :<