(09/12/2010 07:17 PM)vinrose67 Wrote:  by age it's normal, the way your girl looks compared to you people may say your a pedophile!

Yeah, at best I am young enough to pass off as 17, she is small enough to pass off as 12...

(09/12/2010 07:19 PM)ProperBritish Wrote:  it's a LOT more different when you're younger.

18 = young adult
15 = teen... and to most... a child as well

This. I am an adult and she is a child

Mind you, in three years she's gonna be 18 and I'm gonna be 21/22, it'll be all good :D

(09/12/2010 07:36 PM)Digital-Archangel Wrote:  

(09/12/2010 07:17 PM)vinrose67 Wrote:  by age it's normal, the way your girl looks compared to you people may say your a pedophile!

Yeah, at best I am young enough to pass off as 17, she is small enough to pass off as 12...

(09/12/2010 07:19 PM)ProperBritish Wrote:  it's a LOT more different when you're younger.

18 = young adult
15 = teen... and to most... a child as well

This. I am an adult and she is a child

Mind you, in three years she's gonna be 18 and I'm gonna be 21/22, it'll be all good :D

Nothin wrong with that dude. Good luck.

(09/12/2010 06:46 PM)ProperBritish Wrote:  underage in UK

if anyone in my block at uni started dating a only-just-turned 15 year old...

they'd probably be branded a sicko

I'm 18 and 9mth old and i wouldnt consider anyone below 16 really just to be safe

(16 is age of consent in UK)

Change UK to NZ and that's what i was gonna say.

one question. can you abstain for 3 years?

(09/12/2010 08:02 PM)Grey Ghost Wrote:  

(09/12/2010 06:46 PM)ProperBritish Wrote:  underage in UK

if anyone in my block at uni started dating a only-just-turned 15 year old...

they'd probably be branded a sicko

I'm 18 and 9mth old and i wouldnt consider anyone below 16 really just to be safe

(16 is age of consent in UK)

Change UK to NZ and that's what i was gonna say.

I live in NZ too o.o

(09/12/2010 08:16 PM)Barcelona Wrote:  one question. can you abstain for 3 years?

Well the relationship is long-distance anyway. Her parents won't let me see her even when I'm here with her in Wellington, and anyway once my holidays are over I'm going back to Dunedin for university. So it's not like wee could have sex even if wee wanted to. Once three years are over though she's coming to Dunedin for university too and wee live together :)

I'm 12 :)

(09/12/2010 09:03 PM)1-R Wrote:  I'm 12 :)

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I don't think you're a pedo...

(09/12/2010 08:47 PM)Digital-Archangel Wrote:  

(09/12/2010 08:02 PM)Grey Ghost Wrote:  

(09/12/2010 06:46 PM)ProperBritish Wrote:  underage in UK

if anyone in my block at uni started dating a only-just-turned 15 year old...

they'd probably be branded a sicko

I'm 18 and 9mth old and i wouldnt consider anyone below 16 really just to be safe

(16 is age of consent in UK)

Change UK to NZ and that's what i was gonna say.

I live in NZ too o.o

no spoon? Wellington eh? Im from Napier myself.

Digital-Archangel Wrote:Well the relationship is long-distance anyway. Her parents won't let me see her even when I'm here with her in Wellington, and anyway once my holidays are over I'm going back to Dunedin for university. So it's not like wee could have sex even if wee wanted to. Once three years are over though she's coming to Dunedin for university too and wee live together :)

sounds promising enough.

(09/12/2010 09:39 PM)Grey Ghost Wrote:  

Digital-Archangel Wrote:Well the relationship is long-distance anyway. Her parents won't let me see her even when I'm here with her in Wellington, and anyway once my holidays are over I'm going back to Dunedin for university. So it's not like wee could have sex even if wee wanted to. Once three years are over though she's coming to Dunedin for university too and wee live together :)

sounds promising enough.

what exactly sounds promising about that?

does that even remotely sound like its going to happen? no. shes a 15 year old girl, in high school, and shes going to not have anything to do with guys her own age for 3 years, for the hope that some guy whos off in college is going to let her move in with him when she grows up?

since when do people do this? this isn't anymore a relationship than a pen pal is. the only way this could remotely be feasible is if she was weird at school or really ugly, and you were the most loyal person on the planet. and even then... i mean, you can't even see her.

goddammit man.

I agree with Trademark. Long distance relationships never work.

Anyways regarding your problem, you're not technically a pedophile