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Slushba132 · 09/05/2010 01:49 AM

So I really like this girl. I think about her from time to time and I think she is beautiful. I think she is innocent and just a wonderful person. So after telling her in real life that I had a crush on her quite some time ago she became embarrassed laughed and that was about the end of it. I knew wee could never be anything more than barely friends considering wee never really talk and wee never knew each other well enough to be anything more than that. Wee talk on occasion and I often tell her how pretty she it. She is also a grade above me and graduating next year. So yesterday I decided I would try one more time to tell her. I tried after class but she didn't hear me so I posted it on facebook. I said something like "You are beautiful and you make me happy." Well now wee are no longer friends on facebook. I guess I always knew she could never love me, but it kind of sucks considering wee still have class together...

I figure I will just pretend it didn't happen and try to act normal until the Senior class leaves school this year. Ahhyes

any other suggestions? lol

feinicks · 09/05/2010 02:10 AM

Yea... about posting that on Facebook.... Hmm...

xero1 · 09/05/2010 02:13 AM

Since you said, "but she didn't hear me" you didn't tell her the right way. Something like this should always start something like, "I need to talk to you for 5 minutes" or something along toughs lines. Be confident and sure of what you mean. Sadly at this point you might come off as stalker'ish. You need to regain her trust and be friends again first.

j_p_24 · 09/05/2010 02:41 AM

(09/05/2010 02:13 AM)xero1 Wrote: Since you said, "but she didn't hear me" you didn't tell her the right way. Something like this should always start something like, "I need to talk to you for 5 minutes" or something along toughs lines. Be confident and sure of what you mean. Sadly at this point you might come off as stalker'ish. You need to regain her trust and be friends again first.

So true. Make sure not to dig deeper.

Slushba132 · 09/05/2010 04:04 AM

I told her I had a crush on her in real life...
she has always known and I legitimately told her that...

no point trying really, nothing can happen

eKusoshisut0 · 09/05/2010 05:31 AM

 (09/05/2010 02:13 AM)xero1 Wrote:  Since you said, "but she didn't hear me" you didn't tell her the right way. Something like this should always start something like, "I need to talk to you for 5 minutes" or something along toughs lines. Be confident and sure of what you mean. Sadly at this point you might come off as stalker'ish. You need to regain her trust and be friends again first.

Yup what Xero said, but maybe by now she just doesn't want to have that sort of relationship with you, or she probably would've said something =/

You can keep on trying though. best of luck!

J'adore le paissons · 09/05/2010 06:31 AM

lol sounds like me and my friend except wee're actually really good friends so I always tell her that she is hot and amazing and all that poo poo stuff and she never stops hanging out with me but it's never go further than friends either so it kinda fails.
On another note don't worry about it there is plenty of other girls, you may not like them as much at the time but they can grow on you, sometimes :S lol

Tetris999 · 09/05/2010 06:59 AM

(09/05/2010 02:10 AM)feinicks Wrote: Yea... about posting that on Facebook.... Hmm...

Yeah...girls do not not necessarily like that; no offense, but that probably made you come off as a complete dork. Anyway, putting such harsh critiscm aside, you just need to be more laid back with it and talk to her a lot more (aka be better friends, durhurr), it sounds like you barely know her and you're going after looks.

But believe me, some bitches be crazy I tell you, it threw me off when I first noticed it and you'll find yourself running for the hills.

bloodangel619 · 09/05/2010 08:35 AM

I don't think you should give up on her this quick if she like's you even a bit she won't turn on you so if you loose her now you might always regret it so don't give her up yet but be careful not to be so hasty

Davis · 09/05/2010 08:40 AM

(09/05/2010 08:35 AM)bloodangel619 Wrote: I don't think you should give up on her this quick if she like's you even a bit she won't turn on you so if you loose her now you might always regret it so don't give her up yet but be careful not to be so hasty

I think he already gave up :p

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