Kanatan. both male and female.
games involving going to date girls and stuffs, i go for male, for all kind of other games or games that relationship arnt important, i go with female no matter what.
so the only game I've used a male by now is Persona 3 and hmmm a game i can't remember.

for online games and such i use Heartless141, the 2nd character would be Fatalist or Kanatan.