Kchan Wrote:dating sites almost never work because people are afraid to start a conversation
here were i live people just don't know how to have a romantic situation \(-_-)/

I don't think that's the case, some people are just picky.
For example I would send out messages to like 10 different girls and on average only 1 would respond.

In my experience it's best to ask the girl out kinda quick, let it be known you want to go out.
If you let the messages drag out it's less likey any thing is to come of it.