metalgear08 Wrote:I just sit back as they "assault me", wait until they're finished, then very calmly and deliberately pick them apart, piece by piece, singling out every insecurity they have, until they're reduced to tears. It works. Seriously. And all I need to do to find these chinks in their armor is have a conversation fo any kind with them for a few minutes.

EXAMPLE: Me and a friend got into a huge fight. Friend's sister had friend's phone when I tried texting her, so I got the angry, protective sister instead. I shamed her, hardcore.