Hellgiver Wrote:Like you said, if she is gonna be that way with your cousin when she has a boyfriend, there's really no reason to trust her to be any different with you.  Many people tell themselves that it is only because her boyfriend probably doesn't treat her the way she should be treated, or he ignores her, but really she may just be a big flirt who is constantly getting close to boys.  Not my place to judge, but she sounds undeserving of your love or anything more than being an acquaintance.  Just seeing her do that would shake my trust in her, and would make having her as even a friend sort of hard.

her BF really does mistreat her... hes cheated on her and they do nothing but fight... shes all the time saying shes wasting her time with him.... but on the other side she is also a big flirt who is constantly getting close to boys like you said.... but i have no reason to trust her... more has happened then just this..... from what i can see she may be 20 but shes still 14-15 and confused as to what she wants.. my cousin has already told her that hes not into having a relationship with her flat out but that doesn't stop her from trying.... im ALOT smarter then she is and i refuse to let her make me feel bad anymore... she can go spin for all i care