SUCCESS!!!!!!
Okay Here's how I was able to make a completely alpha image...

okay when your in photoshop go to the channels section in the lower right toolbar (by default its set to layers)
then you should have the channels
RGB
Red
Green
Blue

ok then look near the bottom right corner and click the square with the smaller square in it... this will add a new layer.
from there turn the paintbrush black and color all parts of your image black that aren't in use (the stuff you want see through or clear). From there save it as a bitmap with the alpha channels checkbox checked.

after that I imported mine and now I have a perfectly transparent unliney space

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I still don't know how to fix my other of things exporting with the image half white and half normal