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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.

^ This. So many slutty girls T_T
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.

^ This. So many slutty girls T_T

OH LOL! Exactly what I think! :P
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.

^ This. So many slutty girls T_T

OH LOL! Exactly what I think! :P

what's wrong with slutty girls
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.

^ This. So many slutty girls T_T

OH LOL! Exactly what I think! :P

what's wrong with slutty girls

Nothing, if you aren't into serious relationships. o.o
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.

^ This. So many slutty girls T_T

OH LOL! Exactly what I think! :P

what's wrong with slutty girls

Nothing, if you aren't into serious relationships. o.o

and its unfortunate that there are guys out there that are into serious relationships that are serious and none of those flings, cause im not into that either.....

rather try to be with someone like that than just some girl who sleeps around.

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Ekusoshisuto Wrote: [ -> ]I agree with Trademark. Long distance relationships never work.

Its New Zealand, there's only 4 million of us and it takes no time at all to get anywhere in the country. Long distance relationships mean nothing. If he really wants to see her he can catch a plane and be there within 45minutes.

As mentioned however its the parents that are in the way.

I partially agree with this cause ill be honest my relationship with my ex started to fall apart when she went to florida the beginning of this year, i thought my interactions with her were adequate but apparently it wasn't enough...

yeah sure there was a lot of melodramatic bullchocolate involved and her sister hated me and she helped convince her parents that i was cheating with her sister, my ex while she was away.

I think about it and wonder how our relationship would have turned out if she didnt have a sister.

but i digress you can't look at the past look forward....

even though im still not over it


and that was 4 months ago....


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Aspheric Wrote:Looks like people don't believe in true love anymore...

sounds like this guy does, hes optimistic and if it goes as planned give it 3 years and not only will she be legal but she in the same place as him.

Eku and trademark don't be so pessimistic, be positive and believe in a better outcome.

true love exists and its a shame i lost it, but i didnt pay attention to the bigger picture when i look back at it...

even though i did lose it im not going to go around saying it doesn't exist, it exists via more than one person right, cause i can't be hopeless thinking there isn't more than just one.


On another note,

good luck on your relationship and no you arent a pedo unless you have are attracted because she is 12 o.0

be cool and when something comes up play the safe route, none of the risky ones because in the end, sometimes you can't break apart family even for her to do that, becuase that is a lot to ask for.

wait 2-3 years and see what happens

age of consent where i live is 17 but 18 everywhere else in the US.

and i have seen relationships a lot worse than yours like a 30 yo with a 17 yo

the girl was 17 and she was a friend, they worked out and now they are engaged
shes 21 now.

so i hope many fortunes grace you and your relationship.
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.

^ This. So many slutty girls T_T

OH LOL! Exactly what I think! :P

what's wrong with slutty girls

Nothing, if you aren't into serious relationships. o.o

and its unfortunate that there are guys out there that are into serious relationships that are serious and none of those flings, cause im not into that either.....

rather try to be with someone like that than just some girl who sleeps around.

Grey Ghost Wrote: [ -> ]
Ekusoshisuto Wrote: [ -> ]I agree with Trademark. Long distance relationships never work.

Its New Zealand, there's only 4 million of us and it takes no time at all to get anywhere in the country. Long distance relationships mean nothing. If he really wants to see her he can catch a plane and be there within 45minutes.

As mentioned however its the parents that are in the way.

I partially agree with this cause ill be honest my relationship with my ex started to fall apart when she went to florida the beginning of this year, i thought my interactions with her were adequate but apparently it wasn't enough...

yeah sure there was a lot of melodramatic bullchocolate involved and her sister hated me and she helped convince her parents that i was cheating with her sister, my ex while she was away.

I think about it and wonder how our relationship would have turned out if she didnt have a sister.

but i digress you can't look at the past look forward....

even though im still not over it


and that was 4 months ago....


Grey Ghost Wrote: [ -> ]
Aspheric Wrote:Looks like people don't believe in true love anymore...

sounds like this guy does, hes optimistic and if it goes as planned give it 3 years and not only will she be legal but she in the same place as him.

Eku and trademark don't be so pessimistic, be positive and believe in a better outcome.

true love exists and its a shame i lost it, but i didnt pay attention to the bigger picture when i look back at it...

even though i did lose it im not going to go around saying it doesn't exist, it exists via more than one person right, cause i can't be hopeless thinking there isn't more than just one.


On another note,

good luck on your relationship and no you arent a pedo unless you have are attracted because she is 12 o.0

be cool and when something comes up play the safe route, none of the risky ones because in the end, sometimes you can't break apart family even for her to do that, becuase that is a lot to ask for.

wait 2-3 years and see what happens

age of consent where i live is 17 but 18 everywhere else in the US.

and i have seen relationships a lot worse than yours like a 30 yo with a 17 yo

the girl was 17 and she was a friend, they worked out and now they are engaged
shes 21 now.

so i hope many fortunes grace you and your relationship.

o.o I had a long-distance relationship in the past before my current one also, it also fell apart so I can relate. But yeah, love can exist via more than one person. I've found love again :)

She's not actually 12, it's just that she looks 12 because she is small for her age xD

Thanks for the advice. Good luck to you too, hope you find love again :D
I don't think someone can TRULY be in love with 2 ppl at once, and if so, you don't love them
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Sick_Demented99 Wrote: [ -> ]Well if you're attracted to her because she looks like a 12 year old and you want to do her because of that, then you're a pedophile, but if you like her for her, then no you're not.

Obviously not, I just find her small features cute and attractive Ahaa

As a person, she is damn wonderful also :)

I too like cute girls...

Unfortunately they are rare.

^ This. So many slutty girls T_T

OH LOL! Exactly what I think! :P

what's wrong with slutty girls

Nothing, if you aren't into serious relationships. o.o

and its unfortunate that there are guys out there that are into serious relationships that are serious and none of those flings, cause im not into that either.....

rather try to be with someone like that than just some girl who sleeps around.

Grey Ghost Wrote: [ -> ]
Ekusoshisuto Wrote: [ -> ]I agree with Trademark. Long distance relationships never work.

Its New Zealand, there's only 4 million of us and it takes no time at all to get anywhere in the country. Long distance relationships mean nothing. If he really wants to see her he can catch a plane and be there within 45minutes.

As mentioned however its the parents that are in the way.

I partially agree with this cause ill be honest my relationship with my ex started to fall apart when she went to florida the beginning of this year, i thought my interactions with her were adequate but apparently it wasn't enough...

yeah sure there was a lot of melodramatic bullchocolate involved and her sister hated me and she helped convince her parents that i was cheating with her sister, my ex while she was away.

I think about it and wonder how our relationship would have turned out if she didnt have a sister.

but i digress you can't look at the past look forward....

even though im still not over it


and that was 4 months ago....


Grey Ghost Wrote: [ -> ]
Aspheric Wrote:Looks like people don't believe in true love anymore...

sounds like this guy does, hes optimistic and if it goes as planned give it 3 years and not only will she be legal but she in the same place as him.

Eku and trademark don't be so pessimistic, be positive and believe in a better outcome.

true love exists and its a shame i lost it, but i didnt pay attention to the bigger picture when i look back at it...

even though i did lose it im not going to go around saying it doesn't exist, it exists via more than one person right, cause i can't be hopeless thinking there isn't more than just one.


On another note,

good luck on your relationship and no you arent a pedo unless you have are attracted because she is 12 o.0

be cool and when something comes up play the safe route, none of the risky ones because in the end, sometimes you can't break apart family even for her to do that, becuase that is a lot to ask for.

wait 2-3 years and see what happens

age of consent where i live is 17 but 18 everywhere else in the US.

and i have seen relationships a lot worse than yours like a 30 yo with a 17 yo

the girl was 17 and she was a friend, they worked out and now they are engaged
shes 21 now.

so i hope many fortunes grace you and your relationship.

o.o I had a long-distance relationship in the past before my current one also, it also fell apart so I can relate. But yeah, love can exist via more than one person. I've found love again :)

She's not actually 12, it's just that she looks 12 because she is small for her age xD

i understood that she wasn't 12. it was more of what everyone else said combined, but i can see what you mean.

Digital-Archangel Wrote:Thanks for the advice. Good luck to you too, hope you find love again :D

thanks means a lot.

dark_mirage Wrote: [ -> ]I don't think someone can TRULY be in love with 2 ppl at once, and if so, you don't love them

I think that, was the not said but understood part of the conversation. of course you cannot truly be in love with 2 people to an extent...

thats another topic not based with this situation


but rather meant that i get over my ex and move on.

 lol at quote pyramid kinda got lost
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