Like you said, if she is gonna be that way with your cousin when she has a boyfriend, there's really no reason to trust her to be any different with you.  Many people tell themselves that it is only because her boyfriend probably doesn't treat her the way she should be treated, or he ignores her, but really she may just be a big flirt who is constantly getting close to boys.  Not my place to judge, but she sounds undeserving of your love or anything more than being an acquaintance.  Just seeing her do that would shake my trust in her, and would make having her as even a friend sort of hard.

Im sorry but its better that now you know how she really is. Ive never met a real manipulative girl, but im barely 14 so who knows :/ most times if a girl likes me, i just remind them I've been going out with the same girl for three years, then they like forget about me XD Most but there have some that turned into really good friends.

Girls like that (in my opinion) aren't worth the trouble :/ I try not to hang out with girls like that, but then again you barely found out how she really was. you'll find someone :D

Hellgiver Wrote:Like you said, if she is gonna be that way with your cousin when she has a boyfriend, there's really no reason to trust her to be any different with you.  Many people tell themselves that it is only because her boyfriend probably doesn't treat her the way she should be treated, or he ignores her, but really she may just be a big flirt who is constantly getting close to boys.  Not my place to judge, but she sounds undeserving of your love or anything more than being an acquaintance.  Just seeing her do that would shake my trust in her, and would make having her as even a friend sort of hard.

her BF really does mistreat her... hes cheated on her and they do nothing but fight... shes all the time saying shes wasting her time with him.... but on the other side she is also a big flirt who is constantly getting close to boys like you said.... but i have no reason to trust her... more has happened then just this..... from what i can see she may be 20 but shes still 14-15 and confused as to what she wants.. my cousin has already told her that hes not into having a relationship with her flat out but that doesn't stop her from trying.... im ALOT smarter then she is and i refuse to let her make me feel bad anymore... she can go spin for all i care

Azumi Wrote:her BF really does mistreat her... hes cheated on her and they do nothing but fight... shes all the time saying shes wasting her time with him.... but on the other side she is also a big flirt who is constantly getting close to boys like you said.... but i have no reason to trust her... more has happened then just this..... from what i can see she may be 20 but shes still 14-15 and confused as to what she wants.. my cousin has already told her that hes not into having a relationship with her flat out but that doesn't stop her from trying.... im ALOT smarter then she is and i refuse to let her make me feel bad anymore... she can go spin for all i care

I think you made a good choice then.  No need to get mixed up in that.

hey ive been following this thread and i really respect you for removing yourself from her like that. most people, even some of my friends think that even though they may cheat and spoon on their boyfriend that they'll come around when they see that he(friend) truly loves her.

DOEsn't FUCKING HAPPEN MATE

good decision though azumi. you definately have a lot more brains and integrity than some of my friends

wow alot of relationship problem's

i admit girls can be little sluts at times, alot of them are, try to avoid that kind of group, example popularity groups and other's

same with guys iv noticed that there are some real jerk's its hard to find a person you like and them like you and for them to be a normal person,