Whilst i thought the majority oft he post was interesting (its always good to share, it helps with anything) i think the point of this is almost hypocritical.

You told people not to see you as they did, becuase you felt you improvement was a sham, and yet tell us to improve ourselves the same way. I would need alter myself for anyone personally, but then, I've never been in that situation, so i guess to say that is unfair until I've been put on the spot, and i think to tell people that other peoples opinions of themselves are less important than the opinions of others (the ideaology behind that kind of improvement imo) is just plain silly.


But then, i won't knock what works for you, so congratualtions on the improvement, i just hope you can see my point without it sounding like im insulting you, because im not trying to, though i see how it might seem so