Endless Paradigm

you might have done something wrong... i think mine is starting to fail...

Thanks for the advice Dr.Britt!!!! You're the BEST!!! YEAH!! haha lol

beaner2k6 Wrote:lol when i first saw this i remembered KISS, i love that song by KISS

speak of the devil my iTunes is playing in shuffle and that song just came up

beaner2k6 Wrote:why are girls evil? i met a girl once that totally tried to ruin my life, well not totally but i kinda liked her, i kinda showed it here and there and she was always mean, at like every opportunity she had to make fun of me she would,only once was she nice

Not all of us are evil.
Girls typically make fun of guys as a sign of interest.
Like imagaine a kindergarten girl who says she got "cooties"
from a boy. Some girls think making fun of a male is a flirtation.

can you tell me a little bit more about the situation? Do you still talk to her
and if you do hows that going and if you don't why have you discontinuted talk
with her?

Syfe Wrote:i was saying she lived far away from from me...

Oh ok. So the problem is not that shes there and you see her
all the time. The problem is that she lives far away from you.
Long distance relationship... Ill tell you now from my past knowledge,
Long distance relationships never work out in the end. Unless you have had
a long background of being together and the love, person to person face to face
has already been established.

Can you tell me a little more about the relationship condition as of now?

Brittany Wrote:

beaner2k6 Wrote:why are girls evil? i met a girl once that totally tried to ruin my life, well not totally but i kinda liked her, i kinda showed it here and there and she was always mean, at like every opportunity she had to make fun of me she would,only once was she nice

Not all of us are evil.
Girls typically make fun of guys as a sign of interest.
Like imagaine a kindergarden girl who says she got "cooties"
from a boy. Some girls think making fun of a male is a flirtation.

can you tell me a little bit more about the situation? Do you still talk to her
and if you do hows that going and if you don't why have you discontinuted talk
with her?

no I've seen her once since wee graduated 2 years ago, she moved away like far idk where, i was only looking for insight really, to learn from my experiences and move forward from there

alright Dr. Brittany.

so far wee are only talking at least once a week... and they are only lasting 30m-1h each time...

but i feel i still have a chance. i have to believe in her, and I'll be there for her.

beaner2k6 Wrote:no I've seen her once since wee graduated 2 years ago, she moved away like far idk where, i was only looking for insight really, to learn from my experiences and move forward from there

What your insight would be is to tell yourself she moved away for
a reason and theres no reason in the world you should be upset with
yourself or her. It was meant to be that way and because of this
happening it only tells you that she was not meant to be with you.
Shes not your special someone and the love of your life is still out there.
Looking and seaching for you as you are searching for her.
Keep your head up because you will find a girl that is
a million times better in your heart and mind then she ever could have been.

Syfe Wrote:alright Dr. Brittany.

so far wee are only talking at least once a week... and they are only lasting 30m-1h each time...

but i feel i still have a chance. i have to believe in her, and I'll be there for her.

Ok, what I beleive you need to do is (not to get you down) to think
about her current state. She lives in a different place with differnet
people those of who are males.

And you really need to find out if she has her heart set out for you.
And if she does you need to let her know your feelings for her are strong and
you really want to make the relationship work out.

Commnication is the only, ONLY way a relastionship can work out.
Just talk to her. Find out if shes willing to stick with you and not get
distracted by other males just because they are in her reach.
Just because she can get a boyfriend where she is not doesn't mean
he will love and treat her with all the respect your willing to give.
Let her know that.

I'll see what i can do about it.

Brittany Wrote:

beaner2k6 Wrote:no I've seen her once since wee graduated 2 years ago, she moved away like far idk where, i was only looking for insight really, to learn from my experiences and move forward from there

What your insight would be is to tell yourself she moved away for
a reason and theres no reason in the world you should be upset with
yourself or her. It was meant to be that way and because of this
happening it only tells you that she was not meant to be with you.
Shes not your special someone and the love of your life is still out there.
Looking and seaching for you as you are searching for her.
Keep your head up because you will find a girl that is
a million times better in your heart and mind then she ever could have been.

i know there's no reason to be upset at either one of us, i just wanted to kinda know if its possible that she teased me because she liked me, i always got that vibe but never wanted to capitalize because i was afraid i would turn out looking like a complete jackass or something idk but yeah thanks
oh and she moved away for school and wee kept a little in touch on myspace but i deleted mine

beaner2k6 Wrote:i know there's no reason to be upset at either one of us, i just wanted to kinda know if its possible that she teased me because she liked me, i always got that vibe but never wanted to capitalize because i was afraid i would turn out looking like a complete jackass or something idk but yeah thanks
oh and she moved away for school and wee kept a little in touch on myspace but i deleted mine

That's really hard to tell, because sometimes girls pick at males
because they do not like them but from what Ive lived they pick
at males as a sign of flirtation. That's a very tough call only due
to the lack of information I have of how she treated you. You said
she teased you a lot and was only nice once... But those times she
did could you tell if it was actually mean or if they were playful?