Endless Paradigm

Well I got to work today, loaded up my computer and started outlook.
I continued to talk to my coworkers.
I looked back at the outlook and I had a message in the jeffre folder.
I said double you tee eff! She's my ex that ripped my heart out and stompped on it.
I haven't seen her for over a year, and haven't talked to her for about 4 months (random little texts here and there)
anyways here's the email
   Hi Aj,
  I have been meaning to contact you.  This is a genuine approach, I am not trying to mess up anything you might have going on with someone. I just really miss your company... and it sucks, because its not as easy to be friends with someone you dated. I hurt you alot when wee were together and I will FOREVER feel sorry about the things I did to you. I wish wee would have stayed friends! Because I miss smoking with you and being able to talk about random things.  I am not asking you back as a boyfriend, I just want your friendship, I see you like family, Its really hard to explain but I just hope I hear from you soon, to atleast know you are ok.

I don't know what to do.
I have a wonderful (younger g/f) ATM
should I respond or ignore here

err... be nice.

respond

but know your limit :D

let your gf know about this? :/
idk how shell respond to that though. goodluck :D

^ what boogs says.

If you have a girlfriend right now, the idea of an ex popping up from nowhere could cause her to feel slightly insecure. Whether it would or not though.. I wouldn't even risk it.

No harm being nice in response, be honest and Im sure she'll understand if she's being honest with the way she contacted you.

If she knows you are seeing someone, I'd be very careful... The fastest way for a chick to fall in love with you is knowing she can't have you that way. People need to have what they can't get. So ether way I don't see anything good coming from this, but you would know best.

yeah respond and tell your gf. how to break it to her is a tricky one though. make it clear you're not interested in your ex at all if she questions you.

or something

i unno

Yeah, just like everyone else says, tell your gf about it. But I highly doubt it'll be easy. But it will be much worser not telling her so yeah. Then after that, the rest will be easy...or not as difficult. And that is my opinion of the day

be liek me.
have two waifus. 8D

Lunar Wrote:be liek me.
have two waifus. 8D

oh you sly dog...