I would take the chance take it from someone who went through sorta the same thing the regreats and the what ifs cosume me somedays.
sounds like my life story =(
Tetris999 Wrote:Slushba132 Wrote:Id say I would ask her...
but usually I get up to do it walk right up to them and then chicken out XD
this results in my looking like a weirdo for walking up to a girl and staring at her for no apparent reason...
I do wonder what your friend would think though If you suddenly asked her right before him...
maybe he would think you were trying to 'borrow' her away just because he likes her...
I would at least tell your friend first or maybe jokingly tell him to back off because you wanted her first... Idk
that's the problem im facing right now, i don't know whether to do it or not
theres much to lose and there's a slight chance of success; but i feel like that success is the most important thing to me in my life >_>
either way, if i ask he WILL get angry; no doubt about that
So why is it okay for him to ask, but its not okay for you to ask?
As for your friend getting angry.... Dude... its you or him! There is really not much to think over here.
Simple!
Actually what crazie said sorta reflects a little part of my life!! I never said anything to my girl for a long time (as I had said no earlier...) and she'd flirt with other guys and what not... wee were supposed to remain just friends... but by end of college, I plucked up enough courage (have to make it dramatic or you'll laugh) and said to her: "Screw it... I want to take it back,.. I say Yes!"... The "What?!!" expression was cool!... but not as much as the shock of realization!! LOL.... Baka onna gave me a lecture on how I should consider her feelings as well and how she may have moved on and yada yada,.... LOL
^ yep, wonder if he even think about you getting angry before he asks the girl
well to think about her first, if i asked her before him; she'll have a "choice".
I don't know how she's going to deal with it, but i bet it will be stressing when two of her friends come out of the darkness and open up to her; which makes me wonder if i should ask before anything happens.
Or at least tell her she's going to get a proposal right after me
dunno what to say in that respect
by the way, i told my friend i loved her and i was confused on what to do; but i didnt say that i would ask her ('specially before him of course xD)
proposal!?! Oo double you tee eff...
talk in text messages XD
it makes everything easier...
and avoids your face getting punched by an angry "friend"
Slushba132 Wrote:proposal!?! Oo double you tee eff...
talk in text messages XD
it makes everything easier...
and avoids your face getting punched by an angry "friend"
in certain respects im the one who would probably be tougher here, but im not going to punch my friend because he got to go out with the girl i love :P
so yeah, im not scared of what he'll do; just worried where as buddies wee'll end up (he's one of my best friends)
Tetris999 Wrote:So basically i guess im in love with someone and its just causing me a lot of problems.
To start off the bat there's a girl i hang with a lot and after awhile of being with her she's just really grew on me but at the same time my friend (he knew her for less than i did) now wants to tell her that he loves her. Great, because that's the same thing I've wanting to be doing and now im just full jealously and confusion.
Sure im probably the wimp not to ask first because i did feel quite inferior in my relationship to her as much as my friend. So now im sitting here wondering what i should do, should i run in front of my friend (because i know when he's going to ask) and tell her straight up (and if i get rejected that's great because then i will know it'll be impossible to get with her) that i love her or wait for him to ask.
The thing is that im scared of what she's going to say to him because they were in a temporary 3 week relationship before and just by the looks of it they already look all lovey-dovey; i don't want her to answer his question before mine.
Eff, i feel like a jackass but she's the only person that would make my heart leap 10 beats when i first saw her. I even turned down another girl asking me out just so i could walk with her for 30 minutes. If it wasn't my friend i wouldn't be confused as i am right now, he's a good guy and i want his life to be happy but i feel like i don't want to lose her to him.
Yeahhhhhhh, i guess its just another teen angst that normally happens but i feel like I'll be able to get with no one if i don't ask her; i want my doubt cleared and my questions answered before any spoon happens.
I guess i want to be taken seriously, but it feels better writing this out and asking opinions from the people of the net than sitting here and doing nothing
ow tettris
Your in a bit of a pickle,
My advice here probley means nothing,
But if i was you,
i would probley try taking her out somewhere,
Probley a little far from him finding her,
Spend a day with her doing some things she likes,
get to know her a little more better
I relise youve been friends for a while but that doesn't mean you know her yet,
When your days over just drop the little hint that you like her,
Ow and rawrrr
:3 she will pick you because tettris has got skills
R!KKU Wrote:Tetris999 Wrote:So basically i guess im in love with someone and its just causing me a lot of problems.
To start off the bat there's a girl i hang with a lot and after awhile of being with her she's just really grew on me but at the same time my friend (he knew her for less than i did) now wants to tell her that he loves her. Great, because that's the same thing I've wanting to be doing and now im just full jealously and confusion.
Sure im probably the wimp not to ask first because i did feel quite inferior in my relationship to her as much as my friend. So now im sitting here wondering what i should do, should i run in front of my friend (because i know when he's going to ask) and tell her straight up (and if i get rejected that's great because then i will know it'll be impossible to get with her) that i love her or wait for him to ask.
The thing is that im scared of what she's going to say to him because they were in a temporary 3 week relationship before and just by the looks of it they already look all lovey-dovey; i don't want her to answer his question before mine.
Eff, i feel like a jackass but she's the only person that would make my heart leap 10 beats when i first saw her. I even turned down another girl asking me out just so i could walk with her for 30 minutes. If it wasn't my friend i wouldn't be confused as i am right now, he's a good guy and i want his life to be happy but i feel like i don't want to lose her to him.
Yeahhhhhhh, i guess its just another teen angst that normally happens but i feel like I'll be able to get with no one if i don't ask her; i want my doubt cleared and my questions answered before any spoon happens.
I guess i want to be taken seriously, but it feels better writing this out and asking opinions from the people of the net than sitting here and doing nothing
ow tettris
Your in a bit of a pickle,
My advice here probley means nothing,
But if i was you,
i would probley try taking her out somewhere,
Probley a little far from him finding her,
Spend a day with her doing some things she likes,
get to know her a little more better
I relise youve been friends for a while but that doesn't mean you know her yet,
When your days over just drop the little hint that you like her,
Ow and rawrrr
:3 she will pick you because tettris has got skills
that's a really good idea rikku, i don't know about my skills; they've really diminished over the past few months (i haven't touched photoshop >_>)
thanks
